November 2007
Monthly Archive
& admin 28 Nov 2007 12:34 pm
My Rollercoaster Journey into Motherhood
This is the continuing article with same title by our participant Sharmin Islam.
Fortunately, the pregnancy was confirmed by a doctor and after what seemed like many months of trying, I was finally able to get started on my own journey into pregnancy. I was surprised when I came to realize what a roller coaster ride that journey would be. I started getting morning sickness and nausea from very early on and felt extremely fatigued and tired throughout the day, to the point where I had to drop out of my classes in grad school. Although I was hungry all the time, certain things made me revolt and want to puke, like the smell or sight of beef and cabbage. I craved crunchy green apples all the time of all things! Another thing that was really difficult for me was trying to kick the caffeine habit and not drink tea daily, although doctors say that one cup of tea a day is fine during pregnancy. Incontinence and frequent trips to the bathroom during the third trimester was another annoying and embarrassing part of pregnancy to deal with. Walking also became very difficult during the summer months when I was in my third trimester, accompanied by painful lower back pain that just would not go away, no matter what I did to alleviate the pain. Finally, my mood swings also wore me down, with feelings of elation one minute and melancholy the next. I really felt so alone and wished so much to be around my parents and family during that time, who were living an ocean and many continents away. (more…)
& Sabrin 17 Nov 2007 03:47 pm
Cyclone Sidr and Bangladesh River Journey: Effects of Climate Change
Global Warming, green technology, and climate control. These are topics that we constantly hear about, from the media frenzy around Al Gore’s movie An Inconvenient Truth all the way to politicians discussing issues to implement energy conserving regulations. Although we hear and speak about climate control issues in our everyday lives, we rarely think about the vast negative implications on the everyday lives of citizens whose habitats are directly affected by such climate changes.

Photo BBC: Many children in Sharonkholur have lost parents in the cyclone, while food is in pitifully short supply.
Recently I came across the study being conducted by BBC which is working to document how global warming has impacted the rural areas of Bangladesh. Titled the Bangladesh River Journey, the project consists of a crew of BBC World Service members traveling along the rivers of Bangladesh in order to observe the effects of climate change on affected populations. And the moment Cyclone Sidr hit Bangladesh which has taken thousands of lives (and rising) and misplaced thousands more from their habitat, the team has been updating the harrowing ordeal of the local population. To remain updated read their entries at the following link:
“A harrowing day for the BBC team reporting on villages that were totally destroyed in the cyclone.â€
Although the BBC article The Bangladesh Journey highlights the good spirits of our people, as even the journalist notes, “It’s difficult to do anything other than admire Bangladeshis. Among the poorest people of the world, they are amazingly resourceful and cheerful.†is fairly concerning, “the sea in the nearby Bay of Bengal needs to rise by only a few centimeters for up to 20 million people to be displacedâ€.
The Adhunika team is asking everyone to keep people affected by Cyclone Sidr in their prayers, and to share name of organizations who are helping the people with the recovery.
& admin 15 Nov 2007 09:21 pm
Domestic Violence Outreach Initiative Forum
Adhunika and Sakhi-Gen2 invite you to attend the upcoming Domestic Violence Outreach Initiative Forum.
admin 09 Nov 2007 02:21 pm
Travel Diary: Destination - Guatemala
The following article is from our regular participant Labiba Ali, Enjoy!

Who would’ve thought fifty years ago that these days young and ‘unmarried’ Bangladeshi women would be traveling all over the world by themselves? My great grandmother would certainly have been scandalized or secretly happy that at last Bangladeshi women were having some fun on their own (and without the boys too!). For a few months I was toying with the idea of traveling solo to one of the Latin American countries. Solo because traveling with a group of twenty different personalities and moods did not sound quite appealing. And that part of the world was a big unknown for me but I was determined to rectify it at the first opportunity. So I bought a Lonely Planet guide, planned an itinerary, booked my flight/hotel and before I could dwell too much on the fact that Guatemala City has one of the highest rates of female kidnappings I was on my way to great adventure, courtesy of TACA airlines (which many jokingly call ‘TAke CAution’ airlines because of its not so safe safety record). (more…)
Sharmin 05 Nov 2007 09:00 am
Who decides the friends you both see socially?
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[I got this from MSN, Who controls the Relationship]
This can be a touchy subject for a new couple, as he wants to be with his friends and she wants to be with hers, but they still want to be with each other. The fact is, you should establish a schedule in which each of you gets what you want and need, even if that means sometimes dividing and conquering. London-based love mavens Em & Lo, authors of The Big Bang and Sex Etiquette, believe that once in a while, it’s OK to go your separate ways. “Just because you’re a couple doesn’t mean you’re joined at the hip. You can hang out with your friends without always dragging your partner along, and vice versa. A woman can tell her boyfriend, ‘Hey, I’m going to a ladies’ poker night next Wednesday, why don’t you call up your pals for some beer?’†A healthy relationship is based on selfless compromise without compromising who you are. But if you don’t like your partner’s taste in entertainment, food, hobbies, or friends, then you might want to consider getting a new partner.
Comment: I have some disagreement about this line, “if you don’t like your partner’s taste in entertainment, food, hobbies, or friends, then you might want to consider getting a new partner“. I consider this to be something couples can work on. More rigid criteria could be the core values we hold so dear.