admin 10 Mar 2008 09:00 am
From our participant Rebecca Khan, Enjoy!
It has been a good few weeks since I returned from my most recent trip to Dhaka and Bangkok and I cannot seem to shake off feeling down and out about being back to cold, dreary Canada.  I knew that besides the sappy grin on my husband’s face, it was the snow-covered ground and sub-zero temperature that would await me.
I wonder why my depression from being back this time is more intensified than others? Is it because of all the fun-filled days leading up to my cousin’s wedding extravaganza, the days and nights spent at their house with all our other relatives, watching them rehearse for the “gaya holud†song and dance numbers, helping wrap the mishti to be sent to the girls’ home, assisting in other little ways, whatever it was, it was always a communal effort, amidst the fun, jesting, and above all lots of laughter, boy was their laughter! There were myriads of people coming and going in rotation at the “biye bariâ€Â - nanis, dadis, khalas, chachis, cousins, phuppis, friends, other hosts of relatives and of course the ever present house staff, who can forget about them? Those days of family fun brings a smile on my face when I sit in silence at home alone when my husband is off to work. I thought I would take it slow and easy before looking for my next consulting assignment but now I’m thinking I’ll speed up the process! (more…)